Stacy, you're on the right track. Perhaps you could pull together some other
friends to help out with the cooking and child-care relief. I think shampooing
and styling your friend's hair is precious.
As for how she is going to feel physically with her chemo and radiation, I can't
tell you. My chemo was over 10 years ago and it made me very sick. I don't
think people are getting as sick as they did years ago, or there are things
people can take to fight the nausea. I was exhausted from the chemo, but that
is treatable. I had two rounds of radiation about three years ago and I really
didn't feel anything from the radiation, but it does wear you out, and it's not
always obvious that it's the radiation that is making you feel weak. The best
thing is to let your friend journal her own experience and share that with you.
You'll have to adjust to her needs as she goes along with her treatment. That's
the best advice I can give you. Any chance she would join our group and come
here to talk about how she's feeling?
Come back again, Stacy, and thanks for your commitment to your friend. Every
survivor needs an angel like you.
Hugs, Doris C.